There is something exciting about playing with the delicate and
sensitive human neck. Even in movies, when a man dresses a woman with a
necklace, a kind of sensual excitement feels the air. From that moment on, she
is the submissive and he the dominant. Never said out loud, but we know and she knows, she
is marked for ownership.
This similar excitement and message of ownership is what makes bondage
collars ever so popular. Once a collar is worn to a submissive in a BDSM play,
it conveys submission, ownership and vulnerability. And the aesthetic does lead
to heart racing sexual arousal. It is a fashion and personal statement of
accepting that you are owned and wanted by another, a feeling so gratifying for
most kinky lovers.
We know you are excited to skip all this to the products portfolios. If
you already live the BDSM lifestyle, be free to skip. But for collaring beginners,
please read on. There are a few things you need to consider when choosing
bondage collars.
Things
to Consider when Choosing a Bondage Collar
·
Decide
on the Type
Bondage
collars come in different designed, each with unique bondage features. Some are suitable for rope-play, discipline-
type of bondage, among other BDSM
scenes. Choose a collar that fits your scenes and fantasies.
Slave Collar- crafted with ease of
use, they are made of soft leather or rubber and fitted with fastening buckles
to the back (such that the slave must be dressed by their master). The front of
the collar is attached with an O-ring or D-ring. This allows the dominant to
attach leashes, rope or cuffs for a complete mediaeval slave look and feel. You
can take it a notch higher by binding his penis and ankles to the collar to
restrict movement.
Leash and Collar – the collar come
with an already attached matching leash. Some are removal for when you want
other attachments. They are perfect for
obedient –discipline plays.
Clamp and Collar- the collar come
attached with nipple clamps
or clito-clamps for an extra stimulation. It is perfect for movement bondage,
any slight move of the neck or body pulls the nipples or clit unleashing a
self-inflicted pain that can drive you to the edge. With this on, your
submissive is completely under your command.
·
Decide
on Height
Once
you have settled on the type, decide the desired height. Collars come in
varying widths from slim to extremely long necklines, known as posture collars.
If you a want short-term BDSM scene, you can choose a posture collar to keep your
submissive looking sharp and straight. But if planning a night out with your
partner that may take hours, a slim and light collar will be more comfortable.
·
Know
your Size
For
your collar to fit perfectly, you need to get the right
size range and master the fastening. To measure your neck size, wrap a tape
measure around the base of your neck for circumference (neck base is the part
connecting to the shoulders). Most reputable retailers like Peaches and Screams
will list the total wearable length of the collar. Compare your measurements
with the product portfolio for your fit.
·
Decide
on the Different Fasteners
Each
collar has a different fastening mechanism. The most standard include buckles,
Velcro or bows. There are others that have lockable buckles which allow you to
collar- lock your partner. These are perfect for slave-master BDSM plays
because a slave cannot remove the collar unless the key holder permits it.
Choose fasteners that are comfortable and easy to unfasten. For safety reasons,
do not leave your partner alone when collared. If they have trouble swallowing
or breathing, loosen the collar. The neck is delicately sensitive and even the
slightest constriction can cause suffocation and restricted blood flow to the
brain- both tragic results.
Collars
are made from different materials including leather, rubber, neoprene, suede,
faux fur among others. Although the material choice is entirely dependent on
your personal preferences and fetish desires, go for comfortable and easy to
clean materials. Leather is a popular favourite because of the masculine
sensation it brings to the play. However, it can be hard to clean and
sterilise. So if your play involves multiple partners and fluids such as
lubricants and water might be used, it might not be your best choice. Neoprene
has a soft snug feel and waterproof, in the case you want to engage in a water
play. It also has a hardcore look that makes the submissive look naughty and exciting;
a feeling hankered by many knickers.
·
Decide
on a colour
Bondage
collars come in varying colours to add a visual enticement to the games. Black
is the most popular. But other colours such as red, pink, purple and more are
available. Browse Peaches and Screams online to select a colour that turns you
on.
We
cannot stress this enough, the neck is a very sensitive part of your body. It
is therefore extremely important that your collar fits comfortably without
restricting breathing or blood flow. When wearing the collar, slip in two fingers
underneath the neck before fastening. It will be easier if your let your
partner do this for you. Once you have a right tightness, try swallowing and
deep breathing to make sure you are not at all hindered. If you feel any
discomfort, the collar may be too tight or chafing. Loose the buckles or apply
a little lube to smoothen the surface.
Do
not sharply yank on the collar, strong tugging can cause serious life altering
injuries to your partner, and you definitely don’t want to live with that.
Bondage
collars are meant to excite and awaken you sensual instincts for volcanic,
toe-curling sexual performance. Visit Peaches
and Screams online buy BDSM
collars and introduce kinky play into your playroom. Savour the enticement of a
well-adorned neck. Maybe even collar and nipple
clamp your partner and make
them moan with a bittersweet fusion of pleasure. Include other sex toys from
Peaches and Screams into the play and make them scream out with multiple
orgasms. Only your artistry can limit you here!
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