How to Buy Pain and Sensation Play Sex Toys for
Bondage
Feel your partner tenderly caressing your body, the
wet kisses, the nipple suckle and the burning thob between your legs. It is
nice but sometime just too obvious. Things tend to get boring. Now imagine this
feeling delivered in a more intense and kinky way. A feather tickling your
stomach, maybe a hot oil massage, a bit of spanking and whipping, or a balls
and nipple bondage, your whole body sensually stimulated and arching with
pleasure. Whether you are heightening or
denying sensory, sensational
play is ultimately intense and orgasmic.
Sensation play can be mild or extremely
painful. It is incorporated into BDSM as
a way to instil discipline, power, control and fear to the bottom. While it’s
more popular in BDSM, there are types of sensation play suitable for vanilla
couples looking to spice up their bedroom escapades. The sensation delivered and devices used will
highly depend on the type of play you are practicing. Sometime restraints and
gags are used to keep the bottom still and quite during play.
So ready up Peaches and Screams
friends. Here is an overview of the things you should consider when shopping for
pain and sensation play sex toys.
There are two types of sensation play
each packing its share of pain and pleasure.
Sensory
Modification
This involves ticking, scratching,
pinching, clawing and temperature plays. It can be mild, sensual or
excruciatingly painful. It all depends on your fantasies. To help you deliver
these sensations, we have created a list of the sex toys you might need.
Feather
Ticklers: tickle your partner to submission with
these light and exciting tools. For full impact, concentrate on the armpits,
behind the knees, nipples and sides of the stomach. You can also give a light
touch to the genitals.
Massage Candles:
if you are into deep nerve massage and stimulation, massage candles will be a
great addition to your sensation play. The hot steams of oil will leave
goosebumps all over your body with pleasurable and relaxation. The distinct
aromas will also play a trick to your mind.
Clamps:
these include nipple and clito-clamps. They are designed to increase skin
sensitivity the particular area applied, such that the lightest of touch is
intensely felt.
Wartenberg
Pinwheels: these devices provide a prickly
stimulating sensation. Be sure to use them gently to avoid piercing the skin,
unless you like it painful and bloody.
Sensory
Balms: these are designed to heat or cool a
specific area and heighten sensitivity. They also add a sweet favour to the
ambiance.
Floggers,
Paddles and Spankers: if pain is what turns
you on, these tools will deliver you a stingy or thuddy sensation that will
felt on long after play. They stimulate
and excite the nerves sending you into an erotic bliss of pleasure. The
sensation can be mild or extreme depending on your personal preference, force
applied and materials used.
Violet
Wands and E-Stim devices: turn up the voltage
and deliver your partner some electrifying shock therapy. These devices will tingle
and shake your nervous systems with numbing sensations of pleasure. But play
safe when it comes to electro sex, a simple mistake can be fatal.
Sensory
Deprivation
This involves restricting some senses
to heighten other sensory. It is commonly used in BDSM to cause fear and
control on the bottom. Some of the essential tools include:
Blindfolds:
these are meant to keep the bottom in the dark, not knowing when and where the
next stimulation with be delivered.
Hoods:
Besides restricting sight, these are designed to objectify and humiliate the
bottom. It psychologically prepares them for an intense sensation and heightens
their nerve sensitivity. Some are fitted with ear pads to restrict
hearing.
Ball
Gags: these are meant to incapacitate the
mouth restricting both speech and taste. The bottom might just want to scream
out yet can only twist and drool.
Vacuum
Beds: once you are sucked in, your whole
body is deprived and any tingle or spank from the outside will send ultimate
orgasmic thrills up your spine. This is not recommended for beginners, it does
restrict breathing thus, risk of suffocation.
Impact play sex toys are made from
varying materials including leather, metal, glass, plastics, rubber, silicone,
wood, feathers, fur, and fabrics among others. Each of these materials delivers
its own unique texture and sensation to the game. Some like leather, metal,
rubber and plastics have a stings sensation, whereas wood offer more of a
thuddy sensation. Glass and metal make for good temperature play
materials. Feathers, fur and fabrics
give a tickle and tantalizing teasing that is mind-blowingly stimulating.
When picking materials, you also need
to consider the cleaning and sterilizations procedures. Some materials may be
simply cleaned with warm soapy water and antibacterial toy cleaner, while
others may require particular attention. Check your user manual to know which
cleaning technique is need for each of your sensation play toys.
Sensory play involves playing with the
nerves and skin; it’s therefore paramount that you play safely. Always start
slowly and build up to more sophisticated techniques and toys. Do not pour hot
liquids on your bottom, you risk second degree burns to their skin which is
extremely painful and may take weeks to heal. When using spankers and whips,
avoid striking the spine, back, kidney or other areas with vital organs. It’s
also advisable never to leave a bounded, gagged or hooded person alone. Be keen
to their comfort and respect the safe word if used.
While sensation play is one of the less
extreme
BDSM practices, it is a physical and
emotional game that requires lots of aftercare to help the bottom recover.
Most bottoms tend to slip into subspace
during play. End the play by gradually
reducing the stimulus and letting them know that you intend to stop.
In the case your partner feels light-headed,
emotional, pained, cold or vulnerable after play, a blanket, reassuring cuddle
or a glass of hot milk (pick their favourite drink) will help them relax and come
back to reality.
Peaches
and Screams advocate for safe
play. Sensational play should be exciting and pleasurable, never traumatising.
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