You have
already experienced a hand spank to your butt. You can still feel the unintentional
ouch that sends an itch between your legs. You are now looking to awaken these extra
sensations into your bedroom, just with a new erotic intensity. Spankers and ticklers are a nice place to start.
While your
hands may do the trick, there are never as effective as a feather tickler or a
paddle. These devices tease and tantalise your nerves into body numbing
sensations. And while your thought pain can’t be erotic, a stingy or thuddy
sensation does excite your body into a kind of arousal that gets your
performing like a movie star.
Although spanking and tickling are associated
with BDSM punishment scenarios, nice and gentle vanilla
couples get to enjoy them during foreplay and sexual intercourse. A painful
thud on the butt might be the push you need for a strong, body-wrecking orgasm.
But if you
are just getting started, you might be a little lost on which spanking, paddles,
floggers and ticklers to pick. Peaches and Screams got you covered! Here is a
guide on the things you should consider when shopping.
·
Consider
your Level of Interest
Tickling
and spanking can be mild or excoriatingly painful. So defining the level of
pain and pleasure you deserve will guide you on the items you will need. If you
are just testing the waters, a single feather or a bundle of faux fur can be a
good spot to start. Spanking can be a little trickier because different
materials will deliver different kinds of sensations. Some floggers,
paddles and whips will sting while others will feel like thunder just come on
you. As you start, try furry or padded paddles. Once you are more advanced, you
can go up to more intense devices like floggers, whips and canes. These deliver
a pain that will make you feel the punishment for days after. Reputable retailers like Peaches and Screams
will always highlight the kind of impact offered by each product. However, it’s
always advisable to start slow until you define how much pain gets your fiery
aroused.
·
Know
the Size Differences
When
it comes to teasing and spanking, size truly does matter. The smaller the
device, the sharper the impact delivered. For ticklers, you will need a
combination of the two. A small one for when you want a precise tickle on the
clit, armpits or under the knee. And a bigger bunch for when you want to drive
you partner crazy with full body teasing.
For
Spankers, the bigger the surface, the less it stings. For beginners, go for
larger more round surface areas to achieve a thuddy massage sensation. As you
get more advanced, thin, spiked and long floggers and canes maybe the only
thing that turns you on. But every strike will sting like a bee.
Different
materials and textures will deliver distinct sensations. The most common
materials include feathers, fur, pony hair, leather, silicone, wood and metal.
When
used on ticklers, feather, pony hair and fur provide a teasing and tantalising
sensations that will leave your body with goosebumps. It will feel like a thousand butterflies are
teasing your skin all at the same time.
When
used on spankers, soft flexible materials such as leather and silicone offer a
stinging sensation, if the right force and power is applied. Hard strikes can be
extremely painful. On the other hand, hard and rigid materials like glass, wood
and metal provide a thuddy sensation that is insanely deep and sensational. Be
sure to start slow and gently and build up more intensity as you break your
pain thresholds.
As
you settle on the materials that entices your desires, consider the cleaning
procedures involved. Some materials such as leather, feathers and fur require
extra attention to preserve their quality and shine. If you plan to share your
spankers and ticklers, go for non-porous easy to sterilize materials for
hygiene and health purposes.
·
Consider
Unique Advantage
Different
ticklers and spankers come designed with special features to increase
stimulation delivered. Some are fitted with vibrations. Some have E-Stim
capabilities. Others come incorporated with a butt plug. Thing about which
features add the kink you want to your games. The best sexual performance is
one that has been well- thought out and executed with precision.
·
Tickling involves a
lot of writhing and flinging. If your partner is restrained, be keen to avoid
over tightening the restraints which risk cutting off blood circulation.
·
Avoid using gags or
bits during a tickling session. The laugh effect of tickling might cause them
to choke.
·
Only spank the fleshy
parts of the body preferably buttocks and upper thighs. Avoid the back, spine,
ribs, tail-bone and kidney areas.
·
Alternate strikes to
different parts to prevent over sensitizing one area, which can be extremely
painful.
·
Discuss the desires
intensity and establish as safe word beforehand. Stop immediately if the safe
word is used.
·
Make sure to provide
proper aftercare once the games are over. A hard spanking session might leave
your partner feeling emotionally vulnerable or pained. Take good care of them;
apply an after-spanking or Aloe vera gel to cool and moisturise the skin. Also
reassure them of their worth and importance in the relationship. Aftercare
should never be an afterthought, make it an integral part of your play to
increase trust and intimacy.
You
know the feeling; let in laughter and bittersweet pleasure into your bedroom.
Buy and use spankers and ticklers from Peaches
and Screams and make your lover
cum with multiple orgasms. Stamp your bondage status with tantalizing layers of
teasing, twisting and screaming with just the right dose of pain and pleasure. Spice things up with other sex toys from
Peaches and Screams to make the senses even more erotic. Insert a butt plug and
vibrating dildo as you tease and tantalise her skin. Spank him hard as you pump his penis
and milk his prostate. Until your lover’s toes are curling and eyes rolling
with blissful carnality, there is still much more you can do. Let Peaches and
Screams be your partner as your re-write your erotic scripts.
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